Fostering willpower: A spiritual tonic

In his speech at the 1925 Jalsa Salana in Qadian, the English translation of which has been published as Way of the Seekers, Hazrat Musleh Maud (ra) spoke on a number of subjects relating to morality. One fascinating aspect that Huzoor (ra) elaborated upon was of the ego, willpower, and their relationship with avoiding sin.

Although the term ego generally has a negative connotation in spiritual discourse, Hazrat Musleh Maud (ra) clarified an important balance. He said:

"...It is agreed that the ego is like a horse. True, the horse has to be exercised. Within reasonable limits it has to be kept lean but not too lean; fit enough to ride yet not so unruly as to throw the rider. But have you ever seen someone who should have become a good horseman merely by starving the horse? ...If a person does not know riding, he cannot learn it by starving the horse. Similarly it is a mistake to believe that by starving the ego, you can tame it or can make it obey your commands. You control the ego not by starving it, but by learning the art of controlling it.

Thirdly, it is no use denying that sin is the result not only of the domination of the ego but also of the death of the ego. For instance, shamelessness is caused by the death of the ego. In  such  cases  the  ego  needs  to  be  revived  to  enable  it  to function as required. Thus the ego is like a horse. To make it function properly, sometimes it should be allowed to become lean and sometimes it  needs  to  be  fattened.  It  should  neither  be  completely demolished  nor  should  it  be  permitted  to  become  too  headstrong to obey"


Huzoor (ra) then elaborated on ways to strengthen the ego when necessary in order to avoid sin, along with willpower, as well as the relationship between the two. Out of the numerous suggestions Huzoor (ra) gave, one particularly inspiring one is presented here.

Huzoor (ra) said:

"But willpower is not always adequate and strong. A person resolves to perform an action but then falters. Willpower has, therefore, to be strengthened. For this purpose I suggest a "tonic" which is composed of as many as fourteen ingredients, which are called from the Holy Quran and the traditions of the Holy Prophet (on him be peace):

1) Repetition of and reflection upon the verse of the HolyQuran:
I have created men, high and low, that they may worship Me. (51:57)

God says I have created man for the sole purpose that he  should  worship  Me  and  thus  be  My  true  servant. Man should, therefore, think along the following lines: God has created me for nearness to Him. His purpose cannot be frustrated. I shall become His true servant; it is not possible that I should fail in this purpose. He should   not   imagine   that   he   cannot   accomplish anything. He should conceive as if God has taken hold of him and urges him to action. The mystics call this Muraqbah, deep reflection. But it does not mean mere passive  thinking.  It  means  repeated  reflection  and conviction that God having created him for becoming His  servant,  he  could  not  possibly  become  anything else.

2) Reflection  on  the  purport  of  the  verse  of  the  Holy Quran:
Surely, We have created man in the best mold. (95:5)

He should reflect: God has invested me with the best faculties. Whatever good can be achieved by any other person can be achieved by me also. The attainment of the highest status is possible for me also. Then how can I fall? He should concentrate on this and revolve it in his mind frequently.

3) He should reflect on the verse:
Assuredly  We  have  created  man  andWe  know well what kind of doubt his mind throws up. We are nearer to him than his jugular vein. (50:17)

His line of thinking should be: God has created me, and He  knows  the  subtlest  doubts  that  rise  in  a  person’s mind and distract it. But God is closer to man than his mind, and can instantly resolve the doubts that rise in his  mind.  God  has  comforted  man  in  this  verse  by reassuring him that he has nothing to fear from doubts, as  the  means  of  resolving  doubts  is  closer  than  that which prompts doubts.

4) He should reflect on the verse:
True  honour belongs  to  Allah  and  to  His  Messenger and the believers; but the hypocrites know it not (63:9)

He should reflect: I am a believer and a believer cannot possibly be vanquished. How is it possible, then, that my  will  should  not  prevail?  He  should  repeat  it  over and over until the will overpowers the ego.

5) He should reflect over the verse:
Surely, thou shalt have no power over My true servants,  barring  such  of  the  erring  ones  as choose to follow thee. (15:43)

God says that Satan has no control over God’s servants. I am His servant. How is it possible that evil should hold sway over me?

6) He should reflect on the verse:
Hearken,  the  friends  of  Allah  shall  certainly have no fear, nor shall they grieve. (10:63)

I fear no one except God. I am a believer; and a believer has no fear except the fear of God.

7) He should reflect over the verse:
We  are  your  friends  in  this  life  and  in  the Hereafter.  (41:32)

He should reflect: Angels descend upon believers and assure them: We are your helpers; then why should you worry? 

8) He should reflect on the verse:
 Despair  not  of  the  mercy  of  Allah;  for  none despairs  of  Allah’s  mercy  save  the  unbelieving people.  (12:88).

He  should  think  thus:  Difficulties  cannot  make  me despair. Despair is death which I am not prepared to accept. If the will does not obey, I will not rest until it does.

9) He should reflect on the verse:
O soul  at  rest,  return  to  thy  Lord,  thou  well pleased with him and He well pleased with thee. So enter among My chosen servants, and enter My Garden. (89:28-31)

I am at peace and boundless possibilities are open to me. Why should I lose heart when God is with me and directs me to enter His everlasting paradise

10) He should reflect on the divine promise that a believer shall be held in honour in the world and that he shall not suffer disgrace. This also fosters will-power.

11) He should reflect on the verse:
He  has  subjected  to  you  whatsoever  is  in  the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth; all of it. In that surely are Signs for a people who reflect. (45:14)

He should reflect that all failures result from greed and avarice. But he has no cause to be greedy for God has already provided everything for him.

12) He should reflect on the verse:
Muhammad  is  the  Messenger  of  Allah.  Those who  are  with  him  are  unyielding  towards  the disbelievers, compassionate towards one another. (48:30)

He should reflect: Evil thoughts, designs and stimuli cannot   enter   my   heart.   I   belong   to   the   people concerning  whom  God  has  said  that  they  are  not influenced by the disbelievers; they can be influenced only by those who believe.

13) He should remind himself repeatedly of the verse:
O  ye  who  believe, be mindful of your  duty to Allah, and keep company with the righteous. (9:119);

and should reflect on the saying of the Holy Prophet, peace  be  on  him:
'He  who  keeps  company  with  the righteous does not encounter ill fortune.'

He should reason: Good designs that take shape in my mind  influence  others.  God  admonishes  us  to  keep company with the righteous. If I cannot influence anyone for good I cannot be a believer.

14) Finally he should reflect on the following verse which relates to the Holy Prophet (on him be peace):
We  granted  not  everlasting  life  to  any  human being before thee; then if thou shouldst die, will they live on for ever. (21:35)

This life being transitory, not a moment of it should be wasted.

These fourteen items would help strengthen willpower so that  it  can  control  feelings  and  emotions,  but  it  is necessary to ponder over them fully and deeply."


Way of the Seekers: https://www.alislam.org/library/books/Way-of-Seekers.pdf

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